Overchoice: Why the System Behind Dating Apps Isn’t Set Up for Real Connections (And How We’re…

medium.com Created: May 28, 2025 Updated: February 26, 2026 article
Overchoice: Why the System Behind Dating Apps Isn’t Set Up for Real Connections (And How We’re…
Summary

What the heck is wrong with dating apps?

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Curator's note

The dating app industry often prioritizes engagement over intimacy, creating a cycle of "overchoice" that leaves users more exhausted than connected. This analysis pulls back the curtain on how algorithmic structures and endless scrolling mimic a marketplace, transforming human connection into a gamified chore. By understanding the psychological mechanics of choice overload, you can reclaim your digital well-being and shift your focus from quantity to meaningful depth. It’s an essential look at how to navigate the modern search for love without losing your sanity.

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